Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Kinky Joke of the Day

One day mom was cleaning Junior's room and in the closet she found a bondage and S/M magazine.
This was highly upsetting for her.
She hid the magazine until his father got home and then showed it to him.
He looked at it and then handed it back to her without a word.
She finally asked him, "What do you think we should do about this?"
Dad looked at her and said, "Well...I don't think you should spank him."

Upcoming Travel Schedule

I will be travelling to Phoenix, AZ from March 21, 2011 to March 31, 2011 inclusive.
If you were thinking about a session with me before I go, contact me asap as the time will fill up fast.

Spanks!

Monday, February 21, 2011

Controversial Video



This video was brought to my attention recently and I wanted to repost it to see what you, dear readers think. It is controversial to be sure, and brings up many questions:
Is it progressive parenting? Exploitation of a minor? A child doing something he enjoys?

What are your thoughts?

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Sexual Fantasy and Maslow's Hierarchy

First of all, I thoroughly enjoyed reading your "bucket lists", those of you who sent me yours...some admirable pursuits and some uncanny similarities to my list. Get your butts in here for a session :)

Joking aside, it has led me to wondering how many people actually make the fulfillment of their sexual fantasies a priority at some point in their lives. On Maslow's hierarchy of needs, self-actualization and the realization of all inner potentials is at the top of the triangle, only to be accessed once basic survival, emotional, and psychological needs are met.

Although one could consider sex to be lower on the totem pole, with physical or emotional needs, I would put the conscious exploration of one's deepest sexual fantasies up there with self-actualization, because it involves having the introspection to be aware of, and the impetus and resources to realize deep desires that are not necessarily fully conscious.

Which has led me to the realization that to explore and seek to understand our deep sexual impulses is a privilege that I, at least, am grateful to be able to investigate. It is a rich playground and a source of much fulfillment and satisfaction.

In the context of Maslow, it is not something that everyone, due to their life's circumstances, may be able to focus on...but I pray that at some point in a lifetime, even if just once, every person gets a taste of the uniqueness of their particular sexual makeup and knows, if just for a moment, just how empowering and beautiful it is.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Princess Shahrazad's Bucket List

A client told me recently that having me help him explore his sexual fantasies was an experience that had been on his "bucket list" for years. Which got me thinking...what would be on my bucket list.....?!?!

So here are my thoughts thus far on that which I want to experience in this lifetime:

1. Travel to every country in the world at least once.
2. Master the art of Japanese rope bondage.
3. Learn a minimum of four languages fluently.
4. Write a wildly successful book. Or two.
5. Experience being a crewmember on a tall ship in the Atlantic.
6. Take voice lessons.
7. Learn how to throw a bullwhip with 100% accuracy.
8. Achieving a black belt in Shotokan karate.

What's on your bucket list?